Thursday, July 24, 2014

Hear Me Today On "The Widow's Voice" Radio Show

Hear me, but also pray for me, please! God has another adventure for me today.
Here's a copy of the announcement (I can hardly believe I'm really doing this)---

"Is Marriage For Me" with special guest Ferree Hardy of Widows Christian Place and author of "Postcards From the Widows Path".

"Is Marriage For Me" with special guest Ferree Hardy of Widows Christian Place and author of "Postcards From the Widows Path".

Tune in live Thursday at 2:30pm EST — at WMBM AM 1490 Gospel Radio Station.

Here's a copy of what I posted in June about this program:
Did you know there's a new radio program and it's for widows?!!! Hurray! I've been listening the past few weeks and I can tell you it's always uplifting and engaging. It's a half-hour show, but it's so good it only seems like 5 minutes and I always wish it could go longer.

Listen in this afternoon at 2:30 (EST) to THE WIDOWS VOICE, right here on your computer! Click the underline and when you get to the website click the words LISTEN LIVE.

If you have questions or want to add to the conversation, this is a live call-in show and Teresa would love to hear from you! Please be patient as the set can only take one call at a time.

Here are the numbers to call:

Nationwide Toll Free: (888) 599-9626
Miami-Dade, FL: (305) 953-9626
Broward County, FL: (954) 525-1490

Don't forget!---

EVERY Thursday at 2:30 pm (Eastern Standard Time)

on your computer at and press "listen live" or

WMBM - Gospel AM 1490.

Catch the rebroadcast Thursday evenings at 7:00pm EST same places
Thanks for visiting this blog today, and a special thanks if you're able to pray for me and Teresa and catch the program, ferree

Wednesday, July 23, 2014

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Thank you for your patience, and I look forward to getting back in touch soon!

Friday, July 18, 2014

It's time for me to catch up on some other areas of life,
so I'm taking a break from the keyboard

but I'll miss you!

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Thursday, July 17, 2014

Consider A "God Quest" Silent Retreat

Have you ever been on a silent retreat? Neither have I, but I met Donna Lewis, the retreat founder when I was first widowed and she's been inviting me to these retreats ever since. I'll not be able to go this year, but maybe someday. .  And maybe this would be something just right for you! So I want you to know about it. I'm not paid to say this, and I do not receive any financial renumeration for posting this.
For more information please visit the GodQuest website.
The following is from the brochure and website:
Plan a "Get-away" this Fall at GodQuest either in New York or Ohio.
The Abbey, New York (Piffard,southwest of Rochester)
September 19-21 (women only) Weekend $185
Deposit $35
Balance due August 19
Spruce Hill, Ohio (Mansfield, between Cleveland and Columbus off I-71)
October 15-17 (men & women separately) Mid-week $185
Deposit $35
Balance due August 26
October 17-19 (men & women separately) Weekend $225
Deposit $35
Balance due August 26
The Origin

Origin of GodQuest
By Founder/Director Donna Lewis
We were experiencing an unusual amount of stress within our family. With four school age children, the demands of the pastorate, and a rebellious teenager, tensions were mounting, and I felt like running away.
It was either I "run away" or "plan a get away'.
So I called a nearby Christian retreat center and that next week planned a two night stay. It was time alone to think my own thoughts and to be my own person.
During those days away, I had time to sort out my feelings, pray, and be quiet before God. I read the Bible in large portions, gaining an overview of what the book was about. I also had the time to mediate on a single verse. I came back refreshed, and with a whole new perspective.
Ready to be stressed again, but this time fortified, stronger, and healthier. Every year after that for six years, I went on a 3-day personal retreat.
In the fall of 1992, I participated in a silent retreat at the Laurelville Mennonite Church Center, southeast of Pittsburgh, PA. It inspired me to have the first GodQuest in April, 1996. Since it's inception we have held many retreats in several different geographical locations.
God is so good... the problems we were experiencing when I took my first retreat have all been resolved. Praise be to His Holy Name. Personal retreats for me have been like an oasis in the middle of a desert.
"Be still before the Lord, and wait patiently for him" - Psalms 37:7

GodQuest retreats usually appeals to two kinds of people:
1. The young mother with small children or the harried father with demands of a high pressure job who is stressed out and feels like running away.
2. The mature Christan who sees the value of taking a "Sabbath Rest" to become closer to God.

This type of retreat is not for everyone. It appeals to a small population of people who understand the value of getting away to do nothing.

Wednesday, July 16, 2014

Widow's Story: International Widows Day Update

Can you imagine yourself visiting a foreign mission you had founded?

I doubt whether one of our readers imagined herself doing that years ago, but that's exactly where she found herself in May! When it was International Widows Day I mentioned a few Christian organizations I personally know of which minister to widows, and today I want to mention one more.

This one is really special because it was co-founded by a a blog reader just like you; a lady I've gotten to know a bit this year by email and on Lifeboat---Gill Rosser from England!
Gill prays with an Indian woman
She and her late husband Barry began this mission over 11 years ago. This past May, Gill visited India for the first time without Barry.
Before leaving, Gill told me this:
Hi Ferree, thank you for the contact. 
There is a website not very up to date I am afraid, which is why I am going out. 

My husband and I started this over 13 years ago. Now there are about 30 children who all call us "Mom and Dad" so it is going to be a very tough visit. 

I have several widows meetings I have been asked to speak at. We feed 10 poor and needy families every month, as well as the elderly. We also care for baby girls who live in poor families in the villages. We hand out food in the streets to the poor and needy. We are a UK Registered Charity. 

This visit will be very short, which I feel is right for the first visit. I am going to get some up-to-the-minute information and photos and also to minister to the sense of loss the 30 children have at losing their English Dad. 

I hope this quick introduction with inform and interest you. Please feel free to get to know Gill, and please click "Like" on the Facebook page for Afirm India. Click here to find it. Sometime soon Gill's book of poetry, call Grief's Winter will be published, so please watch for that too. ferree

About Afirm India We are a small UK Registered Charity providing help to poor and needy families in India. Every month we provide food parcels for poor families along with baby items for unwanted baby girls. We also provide essential medicines to poor families.
Our aim is to bring help and sustenance at the point of need to the poor and needy in India.
Company Overview
We have been running for 11 years
 Here is the website:

Tuesday, July 15, 2014

Home Repairs Single Style

"Stay calm," I told myself. I was a little uncomfortable, but nothing hurt. Luckily I'd fallen on my bed, flat on my back, arms spread out. I could have snapped my fingers to summon the butler--if I had a butler. Next best thing--snap at the kids, but they were all at school.
Elmer, AKA Useless

Elmer, one of my cats came in, jumped on the bed, stepped over my face, stepped up onto the large and heavy mirror I was under, laid down and started to purr. I was pinned by a mirror with a cat on top.

Kind of like a fly under a flyswatter, except I wasn't smashed. I wished I was smashed, but I wasn't; it was just another day of widow-meets-home-decorating-challenges.

Score: MIRROR - 1

I'm mirror-free now. I wriggled out from under the thing before the kids got home. What are your most embarrassing home repair stories? If you haven't had any yet, then click the link below and to start the DIY and build yourself some LOL memories!

Home Repairs That Shouldn't Require A Handyman
Here's a quick overview:
1. Toilet Tweaks: You and I could do these! Plus you wouldn't have to subject yourself to plumber cracks (yay!)
2. Replace a broken light switch: If you know how to find and turn off the circuit breaker, you can do this too. Consider buying the circuit tester they mention, they're really great for finding live wires too.
3. Tuck-pointing: Honestly? I wouldn't try it because cement is known to dry before I'm done.
4. Installing a dimmer switch: see #2.
5. Replacing a broken floor tile: Really? Renting all those power tools too? Just put a throw rug over it.
6. Patching a concrete crack: see #3
7. Replacing a faucet: this looks do-able!
8. Installing a ceiling fan: NOT unless you have the upper body strength, have a spotter, and don't get dizzy on ladders
9. Removing a stripped or broken screw: maybe
10. Repairing your gutters and downspouts: If you're comfortable on a ladder this could save you from a lot of water damage and $$$$ repairs. But--- consider if it's worth falling off a ladder for.

I'd love to hear your tips, tricks and most embarrassing home repair moments.